Can I not have a wedding reception? 

Can I just do a simple solemnization & a small feast for my important guests? 

I feel very lazy every time I think about having to make decisions, from the bridal service to the location etc. For someone who is so fickle-minded, I think I'll have a tough time making such decisions. That is why I'm starting to have my "dah tak kuasa" syndrome & the fact that I always have doubts on the decision I made. Why can't life be so easy & simple like just akad nikah then tadaaaaa dah kahwin? Why must we do a function and invite hundreds of people & most of the time you don't even know who those people are.

At the rate that I'm going, I hope we can go ahead with mami's plan on having a very very intimate wedding.